Daria Nektorova
Gestalt therapist in Tel Aviv and online

Therapy for emotional burnout in Tel Aviv and online

I’m Daria Nektorova, a Gestalt therapist and supervisor, member of EAGT. I help people recover from burnout and step out of a life run on “I have to” — in English and Russian, in person and online.

Before becoming a therapist, I worked for years as a lawyer in international consulting and investment firms, so I know burnout from the inside.

What people come to me with

constant tiredness that doesn’t go away even after rest;
work and life on autopilot, without interest or energy;
it’s hard to say no, ask for help or rest without guilt;
irritability, anxiety, a sense of being at your limit;
fear of making mistakes, disappointing others or not being successful enough;
not knowing whether to stay in your job or change something.

Formats and fees

Individual therapy, 55 minutesIn person in Tel Aviv — ₪400Online — ₪350 / €85

In-person sessions take place at Carlebach St 10, Tel Aviv. Online sessions are held on Zoom for clients in Israel, Europe, the US, Canada and elsewhere — see online therapy for expats.

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Below is an article on the signs of emotional burnout and how therapy can help. If you are worried about sleep, health or a sharp drop in energy, please also see a doctor.

Emotional burnout

Emotional burnout is a state of profound exhaustion that develops under prolonged stress and overload. Imagine that each of us has an internal reserve of fuel: we spend it on work, relationships, caring for others and everyday tasks, and replenish it through rest, support, enjoyment and a sense of meaning.

When more energy is spent than restored over a long period, this reserve gradually runs out. Familiar tasks then require more and more effort, and sometimes there is not enough energy even for the essentials.

How can you tell if you are burning out? Check whether you recognise any of the following signs:

Exhaustion

Constant tiredness, feeling short of energy, no sense of recovery after rest, and having to make ever more effort for ordinary tasks.
Emotional changes

Irritability, anxiety, low mood, apathy, helplessness, and a loss of interest and pleasure.
Cognitive difficulties

Forgetfulness, reduced concentration, difficulty making decisions, a sense of “brain fog”, and more frequent mistakes.
Withdrawal and cynicism

A wish to distance yourself from colleagues, clients or loved ones; indifference, negativity towards other people, and the feeling that everything has lost its meaning.
Reduced motivation and effectiveness

Procrastination, avoiding tasks, lower productivity, feeling incompetent, and losing interest in work.
Physical and behavioural signs

Changes in sleep and appetite, headaches, muscle tension, digestive problems, reduced social contact, and increased use of alcohol or other substances.

If you recognise yourself in these descriptions, it may be a sign that the demands on you have exceeded your capacity to recover for some time. When you are exhausted, the world can genuinely appear darker and familiar difficulties may feel almost impossible to overcome.

Recovery often begins with the basics: adequate sleep, regular rest and reducing your workload as much as possible. However, rest alone may not be enough if the sources of constant strain remain unchanged.

Burnout is usually the result of prolonged overload, insufficient support and circumstances that cannot be changed quickly. It is therefore important not to blame yourself or demand that you “pull yourself together” immediately, but to notice what is draining your energy and where the load can be reduced, even slightly.

Sometimes the first step is asking people close to you for help, reviewing some responsibilities, or allowing yourself to postpone what is not essential right now. Even small changes can create a little space for recovery.

The longer exhaustion continues, the harder it becomes to cope alone. If your own resources are no longer enough, this is not weakness; it is a reason to seek support. Therapy can help you understand what is maintaining burnout, find a gentler way to manage your resources, and gradually regain a sense of stability and interest in life.

How therapy can help

If you recognise the signs of burnout described above, this may be a reason to seek support.

In therapy, you can:

understand which circumstances are maintaining your exhaustion;
learn to notice tiredness and your own limits earlier;
see the difference between what you can realistically manage and the demands you place on yourself;
set boundaries and ask for help without feeling weak;
explore the fear of making a mistake, disappointing others or not being successful enough;
reconnect with your wishes, interests and bodily signals;
understand whether you want to continue in your current work or move in a different direction.